Couples Therapy & Sex Therapy in San Diego & Online Therapy In California

Specializing in Individual Relationship Therapy, Couples Counseling, Premarital Counseling, Marriage Counseling, Relationship Counseling, and Sex Therapy in San Diego, Los Angeles and Online Therapy in California

You’ve almost forgotten how juicy and sexy it feels to be desired, completely connected and confident in your relationship

You find yourself asking: Is this all there is? Am I expecting too much?

But you know that you won’t be content in life and in a relationship unless you feel safe, secure, connected and have that intimacy that you crave deep down.

It is time to stop waiting and hoping. Create the intimate, connected relationship that you deeply desire.

You are Ready for a Real Change

What Relationships Redefined is all about. Here’s how we can help you to get closer to the relationship you desire.

Some Common Issues:

Constantly Having the Same Disagreements
Religious or cultural differences
Sexual Abuse and Trauma
Opening Up a Relationship
Navigating Relationship Agreements
Lack of Sexual Confidence
Anxiety Around Sex & Intimacy
Conflict Management
Difficulty Addressing Finances
Preparing for Marriage (Doing all you can to have success in the future)
Dating Fatigue
You keep choosing the wrong partners
Feeling Held Back by Expectations
Thoughts of “not good enough”, “I’m broken” or “no one will understand or love me”

Difficulty with or Inability to orgasm
Lost or Low Desire
Diminished Sex Drive
Feeling Distant or “Like a Roommate” with your partner
Mismatched Libidos
Mistrusting of Your Partner
You are too giving in your relationships
Relationship Anxiety
Infidelity
Lack of Sexual Intimacy
Pain During Sex
Endometriosis, PCOS, Vulvodynia, Vaginismus, Pelvic Pain
ED, PE, Male Pelvic Pain, DE
Sexual Shame

You’ve tried a little meditation here and there. You go to the gym, you do “self-care” but you seldom really feel good and content. You aren’t sure exactly what you need, if you need a counselor, a coach, a psychiatrist, or a psychologist. But, you know you need something, and you are tired of waiting to fully enjoy your life.

If you are struggling with any of the issues above you’re in the right place.

There is a better way, and I can help.

Online couples therapy is done with your convenience in mind. We understand that you are busy, and that finding time in your day can be difficult. Online therapy can help alleviate all of the stressors out of the process, and help you to focus on what’s important to you. No more stressing about traffic, parking or scheduling logistics. Now you can be able to connect with your partner in the comfort of your own home and have more time focusing on relationships and learning more about yourself in the process.

Let me help you do something your future self will thank you for.

My name is Nikki, and I Can Help

Nikki Nolet Online Couples & Sex Therapist Specializing in Intimacy, Sex and Relationships

I am a relationship and sex therapist in San Diego, CA who's been helping people uncover what is stopping them from truly connecting in their relationships and to feel wanted, desired, and connected with their partners or themselves. I won’t just sit and nod my head- I will collaborate with you to figure out what really makes sense for you. There are no cookie-cutter solutions here- because life is never that simple. BUT… I have so many tools and strategies at my disposal AND the intuition to help direct you to the right thing at the right time so you can get where you want.

Contact me for a free counseling consultation

I know it can feel like a big step to call a counselor, but I’ll make it easy. We’ll spend 15-minutes on the phone and I’ll let you know how or if I can help. If I am not the right person, I’ll do my best to get you to the right person. Click the button below for your free 15-minute phone consultation for counseling in San Diego or Online throughout California. My specialties include Premarital Counseling, Individual Therapy, Couples Therapy & Marriage Counseling and Sex & Intimacy Therapy.

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