The Imago Couples Workshop is designed to help couples strengthen the foundation of their relationship by learning practical tools for clearer communication, deeper understanding, and greater emotional connection. Through structured dialogues and guided exercises, couples learn how to slow down conflict, listen in ways that help their partner feel truly heard, and express their own needs more effectively. Many couples leave the workshop with a renewed sense of hope and a clearer path toward creating the kind of relationship they both want—one that supports emotional safety, intimacy, and mutual respect.
The workshop is facilitated by Nikki Nolet, PhD, LMFT, CST, and Ben Cohen, PhD both trained in the Imago approach to relationship therapy. Nikki Nolet is the founder of Relationships Redefined, an AASECT Certifiied Sex Therapist and Advanced Imago Clinician and specializes in helping individuals and couples strengthen communication, deepen intimacy, and develop more authentic connection in their relationships. Her work focuses on helping partners understand the patterns that shape their relationship and learning how to communicate in ways that foster closeness rather than distance.
Ben Cohen is an Advanced Imago Clinician, was the dean of Imago Relationships, and brings more than 25 years of experience as an Imago therapist and has facilitated hundreds of the Getting the Love You Want workshops with couples around the world. His depth of experience in guiding couples through the Imago process creates a grounded and supportive environment where partners can safely explore their relationship dynamics and learn new ways of connecting. Ben also brings in the Engaged Buddhism practices of Thich Nhat Hanh ,focusing on applying mindfulness to daily life, social action, and peace-building. His practice centers on being present in the "here and now" through meditation and compassion to transform suffering and cultivating joy.
Together, Nikki and Ben create a warm, supportive, and collaborative atmosphere that helps couples feel comfortable engaging in the exercises and conversations that make meaningful change possible. Their combined perspectives allow couples to feel guided, understood, and encouraged as they practice new ways of communicating and relating to one another.
Most couples don’t struggle because they don’t love each other — they struggle because they were never taught how to truly communicate, repair conflict, or stay emotionally connected over time.
The Getting The Love That You Want® Couples Workshop offers a powerful, experiential way to deepen emotional safety, strengthen communication, and reconnect with the intimacy and closeness that brought you together in the first place.
Developed by renowned relationship expert Harville Hendrix, PhD, and grounded in Imago Relationship Therapy, this internationally respected workshop has supported hundreds of thousands of couples in building healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Through guided teaching, meaningful exercises, live demonstrations, and private partner dialogue, you’ll gain practical tools you can immediately bring into your everyday relationship — all within a supportive, confidential environment that honors your privacy and emotional safety.
Transformative Change within two days from 9am-6pm
A small deposit holds your place.
Enroll at least 30 days in advance and receive $50 off your workshop registration.
This Workshop Is for You If…
This experience is designed to meet couples wherever they are in their relationship.
You may be:
Wanting to strengthen an already good relationship and deepen connection and intimacy
Feeling stuck in recurring conflict or communication breakdowns
Working to rebuild trust, safety, or emotional closeness
Preparing for long-term partnership or marriage and wanting a strong foundation
Feeling disconnected, uncertain, or longing for more emotional or physical intimacy
Wondering whether your relationship can heal and grow
Whether you’re navigating challenges or simply wanting to grow together more intentionally, this weekend offers clarity, tools, and renewed connection.
What You’ll Learn and Experience
You’ll walk away with both insight and practical skills you can continue using long after the workshop ends.
Together, we will explore how to:
Communicate with greater clarity, empathy, and understanding using the Couples Dialogue Process
Identify and shift negative relationship patterns that keep you stuck in the same cycles
Repair conflict with compassion instead of defensiveness or withdrawal
Build emotional safety and deepen trust and vulnerability
Understand attachment patterns and the neuroscience of connection
Rekindle passion, attraction, and intimacy
Create intentional rituals that support long-term connection and growth
Most importantly, you’ll experience what it feels like to truly feel heard, seen, and emotionally connected with your partner in a grounded, supportive environment.
A Thoughtfully Designed Experience
The workshop blends teaching, experiential exercises, demonstrations, and private partner dialogue. While there are opportunities for group learning, most of the meaningful work happens between you and your partner.
Confidentiality is emphasized so that every couple can feel emotionally safe, respected, and supported throughout the experience.
No previous workshop or therapy experience is required — simply bring curiosity, openness, and a willingness to engage.
Meet Your Facilitators
Ben Cohen, PhD has been leading Getting The Love That You Want® workshops since 2002, supporting over 1,000 couples nationally and internationally. His depth of experience brings clarity, steadiness, and wisdom to the learning environment.
Nikki Nolet, PhD, LMFT is the Founder of Relationships Redefined, specializing in helping individuals and couples build authentic connection, emotional safety, and fulfilling intimacy. Nikki brings warmth, relational depth, and practical tools that empower couples to create meaningful and lasting change.
Together, Ben and Nikki create a grounded, compassionate learning space where growth feels both supported and attainable.
Investment & Registration
Workshop Fee: $850 per couple
Deposit to Reserve Your Space: $200
Space is limited. Early registration is encouraged.
Register by Phone: (303) 717-5651
Email: CultivateLoveAndJoy@gmail.com
Refund policy available upon registration.